257. Waiting While Trusting God with Pamela Henkelman

by Julie Lefebure | Jun 30, 2026 | Podcast

In this month’s guest episode of Encouragement for Real Life, Julie sits down with her longtime friend, prayer partner, and fellow encourager, Pamela Henkelman. Pamela is an empty nest coach, podcast host, and ministry leader. She has spent years helping women navigate one of life’s biggest transitions with hope and purpose.

Together, Julie and Pamela reflect on their friendship, the gift of praying together each week for the past five years, and the importance of having trusted people who truly know and encourage you. Pamela shares what she’s learned through her empty nest season, reminding us that while motherhood is a beautiful calling, it was never meant to become our entire identity. Our truest identity is found as daughters of God.

But this conversation goes even deeper.

Pamela vulnerably opens up about a story she doesn’t often share publicly. She has an ongoing battle with chronic facial nerve pain following a dental procedure nearly three years ago. Pamela speaks honestly about unanswered prayers, the emotional weight of invisible suffering, and what it has looked like to continue trusting God when healing hasn’t come in the way she hoped.

With remarkable honesty and unwavering faith, Pamela shares how God has met her in the waiting, teaching her to know His character more deeply, to lament honestly, and to keep lifting her eyes above her circumstances. She powerfully encourages us that while suffering may be part of our story, it never has the final word.

Whether you’re navigating an empty nest, carrying a hidden burden, waiting on God for healing, or simply needing fresh encouragement, this conversation will remind you that God sees you, walks with you, and remains faithful through every season.

Be sure to connect with Pamela, listen to her podcast, The Midlife Momma Podcast, and share this episode with someone who could use a little extra hope today.